i was reading saw hoon's blog when i came across this and i totally agree with her n the person who said it.
"Men must learn to listen better. Many times, when a girl says, "I'm fine", a guy tends to take the literal meaning of it, when in fact, the girl really isn't feeling that fine. Men must try to listen and go deeper to uncover the relationship-level meaning of a woman's speech or opinion. Women somehow like to express themselves in a more abstract way; so men please think beyond the literal meaning."